We live in a world where people want to be happy on your behalf and don’t really care if you are happy.

They can’t imaging you unhappy since they’re happy for you!

For this reason, the push you into things that will make them happy for you.


Man and Woman Becoming One in Marriage.


When a man and a woman are married, they are one in union. But when they have sex, they become one in self, How?

The man puts his seed (sperm into the woman and he (his seed) grows within her. Sperm contains DNA from the man, during sex; the sperm fertilizes an ovum (egg). Now it is important to remember that so many sperms go into the woman, so after one has fertilized, what happens to the rest that went into the woman?

Although it gets destroyed by body mechanisms, the DNA in that sperm of the man still undergoes processes in her body; that is why it won’t be so surprising to see long time married people beginning to look alike (the woman like the man)…

So the couple become one only because the DNA of the man joins that of the female.

Why is the DNA transferred just from the man?

Scripture says “man answers to God” and the woman answers to the man, meaning that the woman becomes the man, while the man is God-like, that is why the woman came from the rib of the man showing that the woman is part of the man, so a woman in marriage becomes her husband.

The decision of her husband should not be different from hers; they cannot contradict or work differently because they will destroy Him (the MAN they become). Imagine the body causing contradiction within itself; it surely will fall. So the woman will submit to man because she became him, she cannot be better at being him, so she must submit to him.

Yes, you may have quarrels in marriage just as sometimes your stomach may be aching and not want to work with your anus, so that’s just the way we have conflicts in our minds when making decisions. So it is because you are one, when you want to make decisions, you  may have conflicts in your mind, which may lead to quarrel, but a quarrel should always settle in the mind (even in normal situations) if a quarrel in the mind doesn’t settle, that individual will be confused and out of place and decision-less.

So why does God hate divorce?

Because you have become one in spirit and in flesh, God speaks to every marriage as one man, if a man is not completely incorporated with his other part, he cannot hear God. So God hates divorce not because He doesn’t understand that your wife is annoying or all the reasons you can give…

But divorce keeps His child away from Him, divorce will not let him hear, divorce hurts his child (because his child begins to think he has no Father, yet the problem is he cannot hear his Father).

You are the most valuable creation of God, so the only reason He hates divorce is because of what it does to you; so clouded, you cannot even hear Him.


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 If as a gentleman you are in a relationship with a lady that dresses half naked (exposes her body, in other words, dresses indecently) and you have not spoken to her, even though she shows everyone what you are meant to later see all alone in your marriage, then you do not love but only lust after her to an extent; the other part is that you are suffering from low self-esteem. The standard to which she meets with you and your friends is her nudity. She does not look presentable if she’s well dressed (or you would have told her) to your friends, or else, why haven’t you told her? Remember everyone presents the best of what he has when it comes to showing people… This will be understood by only those with a foundation.

                                                                                    Oluwatosisn Olabode

Isn’t it funny how you can almost come to church early just so you can almost seat in front…

                                                                                    Oluwatosin Olabode

Have you understood the bible so much that it’s only your understanding that is correct, even the leading of the Holy Spirit, the appropriate prescription to understanding the bible is wrong? Who do you think you are, a fool? “But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. 1st Corinthians 2:14”…no wonder you read the bible and still say there is no God.

                                                                                     Oluwatosin Olabode

Speaking biochemistry terms to a computer science student makes no sense unless someone or something in biochemistry explains it to him, likewise God; His ways are not our ways, to understand Him you don’t ask man because he would not know, he can only try, only the Holy Spirit can tell you the ways of God, as He is God, so when an honest man tries, it’s through the leading of the Holy Spirit. Therefore, in other for the bible to make sense to you, ask the Holy Spirit not your brain…

                                                                                        Oluwatosin Olabode

All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,  that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work. 

                                                                                       2nd Timothy 3:16-17 NKJV

 But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you. 

                                                                                        John 14:26 NKJV

The above quotations are on the basis of the Christian faith. We are God’s creation and the manual to understanding our essence and every thing in existence is the bible which has a prescription to reading it.