Fatherhood- Building Life Skills
Stepping out Pearls with Viktor Kuchili convened by Viktor
Kuchili is a free monthly inspirational platform that helps individuals live
fulfilling lives. This month, in partnership with the The Emotional Man Group a
platform creating support systems for men by monitoring and mentoring them,
convened by Tosin Olabode Sst -are hosting a Father's Day Special!!!
Because a lot of the responsibilities that fathers shoulder
is expected of them (rightly so); a lot of them are usually not celebrated.
We've built a culture of rarely celebrating our fathers and men in general. It
is in this regards that the Father's Day has been set aside every third Sunday
in June to intentional celebrate all the fathers around the world (and soon to
be fathers).
By this act; we hope to build a generation of people who
become deliberately intentional about celebrating fathers daily.
To justify the need for Fathers to be celebrated, we must
first understand who fathers are. “By divine design, fathers are to preside
over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide
the necessities of life and protection for their families” (“The Family: A
Proclamation to the World,” Ensign, Nov. 1995, 102).

While this is true; the dynamics of times have since changed
from when this was written and a lot of men (fathers) have lost their identity
as regards fatherhood. President David O. McKay stated that “no other success
can compensate for failure in the home”. It is therefore important that we host
this conversation especially considering that more men (both young and old) are
taking their lives in comparison to the female gender on a statistics of 4:1
according to WHO.
It is in this regards that we hope to examine ways men
perceive and decipher their parenting responsibilities, paying careful
attention to psychosocial, economic, spiritual and political factors that affect
the ability to parent, while underscoring the struggles and intent of many
fathers to be responsible caregivers, and to define what fathering looks like.
Also considering the currently challenges face by people as
over the world. We would be building life skills that would be helpful in
coping with these challenges.
This conversation is free and open to all genders.